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Over the years, I have noticed that there is one trick to cooking and hosting that has helped me more than any other: preparation. As someone who is naturally quite chaotic, I have found that having a menu written out makes it possible to draw up a plan and a shopping list and thereby enjoy the process of having guests.
Equally, if I have done all my chopping and general prep on my own — con calma, while listening to music or a podcast — before my guests arrive, I find that cooking and assembling just before dinner is much less stressful and time-consuming. When I worked in an office, I took this to the extreme: If I had people coming over for dinner, I would get up an hour early before leaving for work so that everything would be prepared for the evening ahead.
However, if you don’t have the luxury of time, don’t worry, just go easy on yourself and choose to cook something that is straightforward and failsafe. Part of the point of cooking for friends and family is for the host to have a nice time, too, And if the host is visibly stressed, no one will enjoy themselves. If the host is relaxed, I usually find that everything will fall into place.
This is not to say that I am never stressed when hosting a lunch or dinner party. But I do everything in my power ahead of time to make sure that I am as serene as possible, thereby allowing myself to have fun.
If I feel stressed or overwhelmed, I do one of two things. I cut a dish from the menu — usually a side and sometimes the starter — as it’s only dinner, there’s no need to get too attached to the idea of it being perfect. Or I commandeer one or two of my guests to help. There is no need to be a martyr, and if you feel like you need an extra pair of hands, ask. I find people are always happy to help as long as they are set up in a seat, have a large drink, and are given a specific task (most of us hate taking initiative in other people’s kitchens). They can then happily grate Parmesan, top crostini, or pod broad beans — plus they are able to chat with you.
About Amber: Amber Guinness was born in London and grew up in Tuscany. She studied history and Italian literature at the University of Edinburgh, working as a cook in both London and Italy in her spare time. In 2014, she co-founded The Arniano Painting School, a residential painting course and artists’ retreats that are centered around creativity and food and have been featured in The New York Times, House & Garden, and various other international magazines. Amber now lives in Florence. A House Party in Tuscany is her first book.
Next time you find yourself searching for a light summer side dish, try one of the easy recipes below.
Excerpted from A House Party in Tuscany, by Amber Guinness © Thames & Hudson Australia 2022 Text © Amber Guinness 2022 Reprinted by permission of Thames & Hudson Inc.

Serves 6
Hands-On Time: 5 minutes
Total Time: 40 minutes
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Serves 6
Hands-On Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 10 minutes
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Make-Ahead Tip: You can keep the shaved zucchini in the fridge, undressed, for a couple of hours, and toss it with the oil and lemon juice just before serving.

Serves 6
Hands-On Time: 10 minutes
Total Time: 40 minutes
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Directions
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